Welcome to “The Push and The Pull” research project!
(Formerly the “Work like a Mother Project”)
The often-cited fact that women earn $0.80 on the dollar compared to their male counterparts obscures a crucial caveat—the gap expands dramatically upon the arrival of a woman’s first child. The Push and The Pull project aims to more holistically explore this “motherhood penalty” by asking women about their post-child plans, their decision-making, their supports and constraints, and their successes and regrets.
Existing research is replete with discussions of how mothers work differently than non-mothers. They are more likely to quit for family-related reasons than fathers, and when they remain employed they are more likely to seek flexible employment, scale back their hours, or otherwise adjust their paid work to accommodate the (unpaid) practical and emotional requirements of raising children. Research has largely failed to examine, however, the reasoning behind these work adjustments mothers so often make. In the absence of certain constraints might they have chosen differently? How do mothers feel about the way their paid work bends to the unpaid demands of their families? Which mothers avoid the “penalty” and what supports enable their success?
The Push and The Pull aims to broaden and deepen social science’s understanding of how mothers chart their various paid work paths in 2018. We hope that by asking mothers themselves about the subtle and significant, the expected and unexpected ways they altered (or didn’t) their work lives to accommodate family responsibilities we might shed light on as-yet unrecognized mechanisms that contribute to their differential pay. When 86% of 40-44 year-old women in the United States have given birth, the motherhood penalty is, at its core, a gender issue. If we want to reduce the financial ramifications of motherhood and thereby move the needle on gender equity, we must let the experiences of mothers themselves tell us both what is and what could be.
“We are volcanoes. When we women offer our experience as our truth, as human truth, all the maps change. There are new mountains. That’s what I want – to hear you erupting… If we don’t tell our truth, who will?” – Ursula Le Guin